About Ana <--- Not her real name.

control freak:-
someone with a compulsive desire to exert control over situations and people lives.

I have this friend, lets call her Ana. So Ana is a good friend of mine and has been for the past 10 years. Sometimes, I feel a little annoyed, irritated and disturbed just being around her. But still we are friends, because friends except one another weakness.

Anyways, I always wonder why Ana was the way she is, and it comes to my conclusion it is the way a person is being brought up.For me, I had a Dad who works in a military base before, so he was pretty strict  with me and my brothers. But each time when me and my brothers wanted to do something which we know it is not allowed, we make sure we hide the evidence. Alright coming back to my friend Ana, her parents were pretty strict too as growing up, but a different way. She was forbidden to face reality. Until today. But Ana finds her own way to explore to outside world, "INTERNET".

Which she does it secretly, without the knowledge of her family. So whenever I meet up with Ana, she would share her adventure on the net and also her secret of several mysterious black men that she was hooked up with. And what an adventure indeed.

Ana, use to be afraid of even stepping in the shopping mall, afraid that the public would look down and tease  her of her appearance. Ana is obesity, and she has been as a child, so that's why her family forbid her from the world outside polluting her mind about how cruel the outside world is. But with the support from her friends Ana see the world differently. Not as how it was describe by her family.

Anyways, we hang out about twice in a week and sometimes for dinner along with some other friends. And when I meant hang out is for tea, lunch,window shopping,karaoke,dinner and etc. But her family see's it differently. Especially her sister, to me is a total CONTROL FREAK! She says whatever she like and do whatever she want without the concerns of other people feelings. Like recently, the sister confronted a friend of mine and asking why are we always taking Ana out. It's like we have committed a crime or something. For goodness sake ANA is COMING 30 YEARS OLD and she's being treated like a teenager. And recently, Ana got back home about 10pm and her mom was waiting for her and ask her " Have you done enough of bitching outside? Your pussy had enough?" <---- WTF? Seriously ??! And I remember there was a time, I was having lunch outside with friends and my mum , and Ana sister past by and commented on the way I dress, She ask me "Doesn't your mother say anything about the way you dress?" My Mom was beside me giving a nasty look to Ana Sister, which I don't think Ana sister notice.Who The F*** she think she is? Having the right to say that anyone at all? Her education was pretty good but F***, attitude wise she fails! Here's to you, you B***H!!

Crap..I'm just so P.O! I just have to say this, Ana you know who you are. I love you like a sister, but I don't think we will be hanging out as often as before anymore or maybe ever. Until you stand up to your sister. I just hate the fact she confronted our friends and giving us like a WARNING to not take you out. So until you stand up to your CONTROL FREAK SISTER, than call us. Because if we did it, people will say it's RUDE so thats why I have this blog to express how much I really really really hate your sister. And I say this on behalf of myself and the others. So Ana, be strong and fight for your righteousness.! Sorry I just had enough of being the victim of your sister gossip or whatever you call it.